Skills

Commercial Mediation, Mediation Practice, Mediation Users/Clients, Personal Development, Skills, Workplace Mediation

(Bond & Bond Mediation / University of Wildau )/ /1 Comment

In this blogpost, I interview Alesia Ehrhardt on the uses of mediation in business and start-ups, and on her success as a coach at the recent IBA-VIAC International CDRC Mediation and Negotiation Competition. Alesia studied at Technical University of Applied Sciences Wildau, Germany, where she participated in several courses I taught. You are a “venture…

Art, Communication, conlfict coaching, Dialogue, Framing, Language, Leadership, Mediation Practice, mediation process, Mentoring, Personal Development, Scotland, Skills, Stories, The role of the mediator, Uncategorized

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Every now and again something happens to cause me to pause and think – or re-think. Recently, I had that experience at a small ruined castle in the heart of Scotland, near a lovely country town called Edzell. Edzell Castle, visited by, among others, Mary Queen of Scots and her son, King James VI of…

Bias, Cognitive Bias, Communication, General, Language, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, NLP, Perception, Skills

(National University of Singapore, Faculty of Law)/ /2 Comments

For readers who are new, the “Neuro-Linguist’s Toolbox” series is an ongoing series focused on using Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) in our practice of amicable dispute resolution. The first section focused on rapport (the first of which can be found here). The second section focuses on matters of self-care and personal improvement for mediators (the first…

Mediation Jokes, Mediation Training, United Nations Convention on International Settlement Agreements Resulting from Mediation

(Kwok, Ng & Chan, Solicitors & Notaries)/ /3 Comments

In November 2009, John Kenyon published a blog entry titled “Mediation Jokes” with the first sentence saying, “There is much discussion on whether or not mediation is a profession yet one of the defining marks of a profession is when you can tell jokes about its practitioners.” With the passage of time, the practice of…

ADR, Australia, Commercial Mediation, Conflict, Creativity, Developing the Field, Dispute Resolution, Interests, International commercial mediation, lawyers in mediation, Mediation Practice, mediation process, Reflective practise, Skills, Training, Uncategorized

(University of New South Wales)/ /12 Comments

  The International Commercial Mediation Competition made a brave online appearance this year – the 16th year in which the ICC has delivered the most important competition of its kind in the world. For 15 of these 16 years it has been my privilege to be part of this experience as the coach for my…

Communication, Framing, General, Language, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, NLP, Skills

(National University of Singapore, Faculty of Law)/ /1 Comment

For readers who are new, the “Neuro-Linguist’s Toolbox” series is an ongoing series focused on using Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) in our practice of amicable dispute resolution. The first section focused on rapport (the first of which can be found here). The second section focuses on matters of self-care and personal improvement for mediators (the first…

Communication, Decision making, Dialogue, Dispute Resolution, Language, Negotiation, Skills

(University of Missouri Center for the Study of Dispute Resolution)/ /Leave a comment

“Managing a Client’s expectations and advising them on a course of action turned out to be far more difficult than negotiating with the other Party.” So wrote newly-minted Indian lawyer Varsha Manoj about her experiences negotiating with her clients. Many lawyers in the US and other countries undoubtedly have similar experiences. Legal clients often experience…

Communication, COVID-19, Dialogue, Environmental disputes, General, Reality-Testing

(NZ Centre for ICT Law & School of Law, Auckland University)/ /Leave a comment

“We’ve come a long way since we last shook hands Still got a long way to go” “Come a Long Way”, Kate McGarrigle & Louden Wainwright III performed by Kate & Anna McGarrigle and others (including Kate and Louden’s children, Martha and Rufus Towards the end of last year, we took our 13-year-old granddaughter and…

Bias, Causes of Conflict, Cognitive Bias, Communication, General, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, NLP, Perception, Skills, Social intelligence

(National University of Singapore, Faculty of Law)/ /2 Comments

For readers who are new, the “Neuro-Linguist’s Toolbox” series is an ongoing series focused on using Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) in our practice of amicable dispute resolution. The first section focused on rapport (the first of which can be found here). The second section focuses on matters of self-care and personal improvement for mediators (the first…

Causes of Conflict, Communication, COVID-19, Dialogue, General, Reality-Testing

(NZ Centre for ICT Law & School of Law, Auckland University)/ /Leave a comment

“Half moons ago people were hollowed-out tablets of stone spaces were given them according to spaces they left . . . some spaces were filled with darkness no light would shine there . . .” – From “Afkasi” by Dr Selina Tusitala Marsh, former poet laureate of New Zealand Many of you will be familiar…